People to support you and hold you accountable to work on your goals
Increase skills sets
Mind-Based Mood Management and calming skills
Assertiveness, Anger Management, etc.
Reflect on your situation
Move out of denial, enabling, codependency, and/or enmeshment
Consider how this has affected you in all areas of your life both in the past and the present
Acknowledge the hurt and pain
Feeling the sad and the mad
Talk about the sad and mad
Accept that you can’t change the past
Make the Forgiveness Decision
I chose not to forgive (and own this state), or
I chose to forgive everything, or
I chose to forgive certain parts
Then make the decision to start your journey on the Forgiveness Process
Work out your forgiveness, starting from your core inside; begin spreading it out to all your insides, then outsides, then to others, then to all there is (effecting the spiritual climate.)
Notice that forgiveness isn’t this big watershed moment at the end of the process; we are only in the middle now. This story ark isn’t like an action film where all the big explosions and climax a few minutes before the end credits. You’ll have a soft ending where you barely notice it if it ever ends.
Understand the “whys?” (get answers to your questions and develop an empathic understanding for yourself and the person that hurt you)
Find meaning in your suffering that leads to your development and growth
Releasing others and self
The hurter
Yourself
For allowing them to hurt you
For withholding forgiveness and the damage done
Give up the shame and guilt
Victims have shame and guilt too
Release the abuser from their shame and guilt
Find fulfillment in who you are now that you have forgiven
Practice Gratitude
Accept that you currently own this Forgiveness Quality
Decide where you want to go from here
Repair the relationships
Have Healthy Closure of the connection
Forgiveness Journey to Freedom Class Content
Unforgiveness Path
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Forgiveness Activation
This is the Forgiveness Activation which is a meditative thought exercise.
Forgiveness Activation (guided audio)
7 mins
3.2 MB
Forgiveness Activation …a meditative thought exercise …for Christians (text)
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Forgiveness Activation -secular.pdf
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Forgiveness Activation (guided audio) secular
7 mins
3.12 MB
Bonus Material
Audio Recording of Casey Sharing at a CR Forgiveness from Rejection